The man had been cheated on by his ex-fiancée and refused to tell anyone about it. His mother thought that they should be together, so she arranged for them to speak, but he escaped through the bathroom window.
The Couple Were Together for Four Years
The man had been dating his ex-fiancée for four years and they were planning their wedding.
His Fiancèe Cheated On Him
He recently discovered that she had cheated on him. He added, “She begged me to give her another chance but I broke it off.”
He Never Told Anyone
The man explained “The problem was that being cheated on is, in my mind, completely emasculating and humiliating. So I never told anyone that was the reason we broke up.”
Everyone Blamed Him
His ex-fiancée never told anyone the reason for the breakup either. His family blamed him for the split, he explained, “They just see that I dumped her out of the blue.”
He Refused to Speak to Her
He decided to go ‘no-contact’ with his ex-fiancée after he discovered her affair. He explained, “She has been talking with my mom and has convinced her that if we could talk one more time, we would be able to reconcile.”
His Mother Wants Them Back Together
He stated, “My mom has been applying hard core pressure on me to talk with her but I’ve explained that there’s no chance we will ever get back together.”
His Ex-Fiancée Showed Up
The man’s mother was hosting the family for Christmas Eve. He explained, “I’m there for a bit talking with my aunts and uncles and cousins when the doorbell rings and I can see it’s her.” He added, “My mom says she invited Sarah so we can work this out in the spirit of the holidays.”
He Didn’t Want to Admit He Had Been Cheated On
He was extremely angry, and clarified, “The only way to explain my side of the story is to tell everyone I was cheated on. Complete humiliation in front of my whole family.”
He Jumped Out of the Bathroom Window
As his mother was answering the front door, he made his escape to the bathroom. The mother began knocking on the bathroom door and saying that he needed to come out and speak to his ex like an adult. Instead, he kicked the screen window and made it to his car to drive home.
His Family Was Devastated
The mother called him and told him that she would cut ties with him over his behavior. She also said that his ex would always be like a child to her. He added, “My sister called me after to ream me out for ruining Christmas.”
He Finally Admitted it
He explained, “I broke down and told her that my ex cheated on me which is why I dumped her and didn’t want to see her under any circumstances.” His sister didn’t believe him and said that he was lying to cover for himself.
Was He in the Wrong?
Was he wrong to keep the reason for the break up a secret? Did he take it too far by jumping out of the window? Should he have handled the situation differently?
He Turned to the Internet for Advice
Someone commented “He honestly should have come clean at some point before it escalated to any of this. Yes, it shouldn’t have been his family’s business at all. And yes she should’ve believed him when he said that he was cheated on.”
Another Person Gave Their Perspective
“Actually it’s easy to blame the mom, sister, and the rest of the family for blowing past any sense of respect for him and healthy boundaries. All they should need to know is that he called it off and is not interested in reconciliation.”
Someone Shared Advice
“You gotta tell them why you’re acting like this. People will certainly feel a bit sorry for you, but they’ll realize why you don’t want to be in the same room with this woman.”
Another User Commented
“I can understand why you did what you did, but when your mom started applying pressure on you to talk with your ex, you should’ve swallowed your pride and told her what happened. As for not wanting to get back with your ex, I totally agree with you and don’t think you two should get back together because the trust will never be the same.”
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