A Man Was Planning to Adopt His Fiancée’s Mixed-Race Child, but When He Overheard His Mother Being Racist He Uninvited Her From the Wedding

A man couldn’t believe it when his mother said she couldn’t wait to have a ‘real grandchild,’ completely ignoring his adopted daughter. But when he disinvited her to his wedding, all hell broke loose.

He Was Getting Married

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The man said, ‘I am marrying the love of my life.’

It Wasn’t His Biological Daughter

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He was 33, and his wife-to-be was 25 years old, and together, they shared a 10-year-old daughter. He met his fiancée when her daughter was only five years old, and her biological dad was not in the picture. When the pair started dating, he helped to raise her daughter as if she were his own.

His Fiancée Was Amazing

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His fiancée was an incredible woman. She was a single mum and worked extremely hard to achieve a high school diploma and teaching degree after her parents kicked her out when she got pregnant at age 15. Although they eventually reconciled, she started parenthood alone and was a fantastic mom.

He Couldn’t Wait to Adopt Her

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He started dating his fiance when she finished college, and the pair had been together for three years before they got engaged. She was a student teacher at the school he worked at, and he loved her daughter. After a year, he referred to her child as his own, and they decided that when they got married, he would adopt her. He was her dad.

It Crossed a Line

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The man and his fiancée were Caucasian, and their shared daughter was mixed race. One day, he overheard his parents and future-in-laws talking about their future grandkids. That’s when he heard something that shocked him. His mother said she couldn’t wait for a ‘real grandchild’.

His Mother Was Being Racist

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Immediately, the man asked what his mother had meant by that, to which she replied that his daughter was not his. They didn’t look at all similar, and she was excited to have a grandchild that was obviously biologically hers that she could ‘show off’. The man was outraged.

He Uninvited Her to His Wedding

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He was shocked by his mother’s dismissal of his daughter, having never thought she’d ever say something like that in a million years. He told her that the comment was racist and that he was extremely disappointed. That’s when he said that she was no longer welcome at his wedding.

It Was a Nightmare

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The man said, ‘I told her she wasn’t welcome at my wedding and not to worry about being seen with my daughter because she would never be seeing any of my kids.’

His Fiancée Was Upset

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Later that day, his mother began blowing up his social media, claiming it was a misunderstanding. He wanted to block her, but she shared her social media accounts with his father. He just wanted to call her out as a racist and be done with it. He asked his fiancée what she thought about the situation, but she said it was his decision. However, he knew she was hurt by what his mother had said.

Was He in the Wrong?

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When the man spoke to his family about the situation, they said that he should give his mother another chance, but he didn’t want her racist attitude near his child or future children. So, he asked the internet for advice.

The Internet Responded

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One person said, ‘Shame on your mom, what’s worse is that she doubled down on her statement when you called her out on it.’

Others Chimed in

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Another commented, ‘Thank you for stepping up and protecting this child.’

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