A Man’s Father Abandoned Him as A Child but Is Now Trying to Buy Back His Love, when The Man Refused the Money His Fiancée Left Him

A 32-year-old man found himself at a crossroads, grappling with a complex family history that had resurfaced in unexpected ways when his biological father, who initially disowned him, made contact expressing a desire to build a connection.

His Parent’s Separation

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The man’s life troubles began with his mother’s decision to part ways with his biological father. This happened before he was even born, setting the stage for a lifelong separation.

A Mother’s Difficult Decision

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The man’s mother, faced with a husband who accused her of infidelity, chose not to engage in a paternity test but instead asked for him to relinquish his parental rights. The woman moved in with her parents for support.

A Curious Teenager

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Years later, at the age of 14, the man became curious about his biological father. His youthful curiosity led him to ask his mother for the full story, which she candidly shared. 

Desire to Meet His Father

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After hearing the story of his father, the young man was desperate to meet his biological father. In a rather immature and impulsive moment, he threatened to run away unless his mother contacted his biological father.

A Painful Rejection

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His biological father’s response, however, was far from the reconciliation the young man had envisioned. “He sent this really hurtful letter to both of us, calling her a lot of names that make my blood boil and accusing her of trying to bleed him dry of his money”, the man recounted.

Not What He Expected

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This experience was not what the young man expected. It ultimately changed his perspective on his father, and he now chose to distance himself from him.

An Unexpected Reconnection Attempt

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Fast forward to the present day, and an unexpected turn of events occurred. The biological father sought to reconnect with his son and managed to get in contact with his ex-partner.

Refusing Financial Offers

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The biological father’s attempts at reconciliation took a peculiar turn: “He contacted me saying that he was wrong and immature and that he wanted to get to know the only kid he had in this life”, the man explained. “I refused. Then he started trying to bribe me, offering to pay for my student loans, buy me a house, invite me on expensive trips… I refused everything.”

An Unraveling Relationship

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Upon sharing this tumultuous situation with his fiancée, she initially supported his stance. However, as their financial struggles due to the pandemic became more apparent, she began to encourage him to accept the financial assistance offered by his biological father.

An Ultimatum

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Feeling cornered and frustrated, the young man decided to meet with his biological father. During their meeting, he made it clear that he would never accept financial support. He even threatened to involve law enforcement and seek a restraining order if further contact persisted.

A Strained Relationship With His Fiancée

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When the young man shared this ultimatum with his fiancée, she reacted strongly. She accused him of making significant financial decisions without consulting her, which she perceived as controlling and selfish behavior. This emotional rupture led to her leaving and not responding to his attempts to reach out.

Seeking Validation

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Faced with the consequences of his actions, the man felt conflicted. He wondered whether he had made a mistake given the challenging circumstances, asking people on the internet what they thought. However, readers believed he made the right decision: “Your fiancée is manipulating you for financial gain without any regard for your feelings”, one person pointed out.

Good Riddance

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Many commenters agreed that it was a good thing that the man’s fiancée had left him. “This isn’t a big financial decision”, they wrote. “This is you squaring away family affairs and making it clear about a relationship with a man you do not want. Your fiancée seems more interested in milking the situation for money, rather than caring about how you feel. Good riddance she’s left I’d say.”

A United Perspective

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This negative perception of the man’s ex-fiancée was ubiquitous throughout the online thread. “Lucky break, dude”, one reader wrote, trying to cheer the man up. “She just showed you who she is. She expected you to sell who you are for money. Never mind your feelings, she wanted the money.”

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