A Traveler Paid for a Seat Upgrade, but When the Child Behind Kept Throwing Their Toy at them, They Refused to Give it Back, now the Mother is furious

A traveler had boarded a flight on which they had paid extra to upgrade their seat with extra space and legroom. Whilst the traveler assumed this would guarantee them the comfort they craved for the flight, a child sitting behind them would ensure that this was not the case. 

An Unwanted Toy

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Seated behind the traveler was a mother with her child, approximately 5 or 6 years old. Right from the start, the child began tossing their toy over the seat in front of the traveler.

An Initial Response

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The first two times this happened, the traveler reacted with kindness. They picked up the toy and happily returned it to the child, displaying patience in the face of this unexpected disturbance.

A Request for Consideration

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However, by the third time, the constant intrusion was wearing thin. “It was a total nuisance, and he actually hit me on the head the second time”, the traveler wrote. They decided to address the situation and kindly asked the mother to intervene and prevent her child from continuing to toss the toy. 

Eye Rolls and Excuses

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In response, the mother rolled her eyes and dismissed the concern. She explained that her child was merely being a child and continued to allow the toy-throwing to persist.

A Defiant Stand

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As the child hurled the toy over the seat for the fourth time, the traveler made a decisive choice. “I totally ignored the toy”, they wrote. “I put on headphones and just pretended I didn’t notice. The mom tried to get my attention, but I pretended to sleep. Within several minutes the kid started to wail and freak out.”

The Consequences

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With the child’s incessant wailing and distress, the mother eventually had to summon a flight attendant to retrieve the toy. However, she also took the initiative to put the toy away and provide her son with an iPad, which brought an end to the toy-tossing saga.

The Post-Flight Confrontation

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Upon landing, the mother felt compelled to lecture the traveler in line. “She said that I was inconsiderate for making the flight so difficult for her and her kid”, the woman remembered. “I told her that she’s responsible for her kid and that I wasn’t a babysitter or a butler.”

The Traveler’s Perspective

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The traveler truly felt at ease with their conscience. Whilst they recognized that the child was making its mother’s life a misery, they knew this wasn’t their responsibility. Once or twice was fine, but at this point, the woman should have put the toy away, instead of allowing the traveler to be disturbed incessantly. 

Conflicting Perspectives

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After the flight, the traveler recounted the events to their friends. “One of my friends has kids, and she thought I was being unreasonable, so I’m not sure anymore”, the traveler wrote.

Posting on Socials

The traveler headed online with their con

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undrum, asking the internet what they thought. They were thankful to receive the unanimous support from their online buddies. “It’s not your job to babysit other people’s kids and their toys”, stated one reader. “I would’ve done the same exact thing.”

A Simple Solution

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Many readers pointed out the same thing that the traveler had observed – the toy was the root of the disturbance. “She had a 100% viable solution to the toy-throwing issue – put the toy away”, another commenter stated. “Parenting is hard, but she doesn’t get to stop doing it because she’s on a plane.”

A Common Sentiment

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This perspective was found everywhere in the thread. “Could have saved all the drama and annoyance for the traveler if she’d just given the kid the iPad from the start”, someone pointed out. “I’m not exactly a fan of giving kids screens all the time, but on a flight where the alternative is that he’s an absolute nuisance to strangers? Give the kid the darn iPad.”

An Entitled Perspective

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Overall, everyone felt that the traveler had done nothing wrong, and the parent was acting entitled. “Planes are public spaces and it’s the parent’s job to make sure their kids are being respectful of everyone in it”, wrote another defendant. “Your friend with kids sounds entitled too if they think you were in the wrong.”

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