This Father Refuses to Buy His Teenage Son a Car Because His Grandparents Gifted Him $5000 for His Birthday, but He Thinks He Is Being Treated Unfairly

A man with five children falls out with his parents over their favoritism towards one of his children. They gave the child a $5,000 check but only gave the other children a few hundred dollars. Here’s what he had to say:

He Had a Big Family

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The man explained, “I have five kids. My fourth child, Jack, recently turned sixteen. For my oldest three, after they got their driver’s licenses, I went and picked out a car with them. The cars had to be used but in good condition, and they cost around $10,000 each.”

The Grandparents Had a Favorite

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Jack had always been the grandparents’ favorite, and during his sixteenth birthday party, they gave him a check for $5,000. This surprised and annoyed the man because the grandparents had only given a few hundred dollars to his other children on their sixteenth birthdays.

He Thought It Was Wrong

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The man confronted the grandparents about the disparity after the party, and they explained they had recently sold some land and had cash on hand. Unhappy with their excuse, he argued with them, which ended up with them calling him an “entitled brat.”

He Had a Plan

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When it was time to go car shopping, the man told Jack to bring along the check from the grandparents. Confused, Jack asked why, and the man explained it would cover half the cost of the car, and he would cover the other half.

Jack Thought It Was Unfair

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The man explained what happened next: “Jack was upset because he thought the money was ‘just for him’ and that I paid for the cars for all his older siblings in their entirety, so I’m treating him unfairly. I pointed out that they didn’t get $5,000 from their grandparents, so it would even out.” Jack responded by saying, “Two wrongs don’t make a right.”

He Said It Ruined His Big Day

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Jack was extremely upset and said his dad had ruined his birthday. He was so angry, he claimed he didn’t even know if he wanted the car anymore.

The Grandparents Became Involved

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The man was shocked when Jack reached out to the grandparents and called him a jerk for stealing his gift.

Their Relationship Became Tense

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The man then got into a heated argument with the grandparents and said, “Some things one probably shouldn’t say to one’s parents.” In response, the grandparents said depriving Jack of the $5,000 check was “cruel and neurotic”.

Was the Man Right?

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Unsure if they had done the right thing, the man turned to the internet for advice.

The Internet Responded

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One person said, “So your racist parents favor the whitest child, and you’ve been allowing these blatant racists near your wife and kids for 20 years. Cutting them off is long overdue, and you are wrong for not doing it sooner.”

Another person added, “If you cannot get your parents to treat all your children fairly, limit their contact as much as you can and open a savings account for Jack with that money. If you don’t treat Jack exactly the same as you treat his siblings, you are doing the same thing as your parents, only worse because you are supposed to be his main trusted person.”

The Father Responded To The Comments

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In an update, the man explained he had been “trying to make things easier for myself, and that was wrong. I talked to Jack about why it was wrong for his grandparents to give him that check and why it was wrong for him to accept it. We voided it and sent it back, and I gave him $300. I’ll pay for the car in its entirety.”

A further update revealed that the Grandparents may have made Jack their favorite, as he resembled the father the most. The man’s other children resembled his wife more, leading to commenters concluding that the grandparents were racist. What do you think?

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