Her Boyfriend Became A Christian, And She Supported Him, But Now He’s Pressuring Her To Convert So She Can Be ‘The Perfect Girl’

A woman supported her boyfriend when he became Christian, but he didn’t offer her the same respect when she refused to join him. Now, he’s making her feel uncomfortable by saying she would be the ‘perfect girl’ if she believed in God.

She Wasn’t Religious

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The woman was not religious in any way and didn’t believe in God. However, when her boyfriend told her he was Christian, she respected his beliefs because it made him happy. In fact, she encouraged it.

He Started to Believe in God

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Her boyfriend said that over the period of a couple of months, he started to become comfortable believing that God existed. It gave him great joy to read the Bible, and he was extremely happy.

She Was Very Supportive

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Despite the shift in her boyfriend’s beliefs, the woman was happy for him until he started pressuring her. He began to bring up the topic of religion a lot, and when she told him that she didn’t believe in God, he started questioning her.

She Didn’t Get Any Joy From Religion

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She told her boyfriend that religion did not bring her joy, and she never felt a connection to it. She’d never believed in it and was happy with her life as it was. But that’s when he said something that shocked her.

But She Could Be ‘the Perfect Girl’ for Him

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Her boyfriend was unhappy with the woman’s lack of faith and told her it was a shame. He told her that if she were Christian, she would be the ‘perfect girl’ for him. He felt that he could convert her by bringing up Christianity occasionally. This upset the woman, who was starting to feel uncomfortable with her boyfriend’s expectations.

He Was Angry With Her

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Despite being incredibly supportive of him when he realized his faith, the woman’s boyfriend did not return the favor. She was starting to feel that she was not enough for him. She began to say no to a lot of things he asked of her, and he soon became angry that she was not a Christian like him.

He Made Her Uncomfortable

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The woman said, ‘I feel incredibly uncomfortable by this, and I just want him to be okay with us having different opinions about different stuff.’

Was She in the Wrong?

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Her boyfriend continued to ask her to consider being a Christian, and when she said a final no, he replied, ‘damn, why are you so against it.’ She felt extremely weird about the whole situation and asked the internet for advice.

And the Internet Had Thoughts

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One person said, ‘If he’s this arrogant and won’t leave well enough alone, then you should reciprocate his proselytizing.’

Another commenter said, ‘he needs to realize that religion benefits men a lot more than it does women – forcing you to believe in something that claims you are less than men is not something a loving boyfriend would be doing.’

Others Chimed in

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Another person commented, ‘Religion can be a dealbreaker in relationships, so it would be worthwhile to figure out if you want to continue with the relationship or not.’

There Were Lots of Opinions

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Someone said, ‘Tell him he’d be perfect if only he were an atheist.’

A Final Thought

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A final comment was, ‘Despite what others believe, you don’t “recruit” by pestering.’

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