A woman had been with her new boyfriend for over a year, but recently, things had been a bit rocky. A misunderstanding relating to a dating profile had given rise, and whilst this was now in the past, it created an awkward social situation with her boyfriend’s friends. Here’s what happened:
Active On A Dating Site
A couple of weeks ago, the woman found herself in a perplexing situation when her boyfriend’s friends stumbled upon pictures of her on a dating site. Whilst she had used the dating site in the past, it had been well over a year.
A Suspicious Situation
The woman was greatly confused by this event. “The dating website is supposed to delete inactive accounts after seven days, so I knew it wasn’t mine”, she explained. This made the woman question whether someone else was using her pictures and information.
The Shocking Discovery
The woman’s boyfriend quickly notified her about this unusual discovery. She hadn’t met her boyfriend’s friends in person yet, but they were familiar with her appearance since her boyfriend had shared photos of her. Despite her boyfriend’s skepticism, his friends remained convinced that his girlfriend was cheating.
The Accusations And Name-Calling
During a phone call with her boyfriend, the woman was subjected to a barrage of derogatory remarks from his friends. They yelled things like “Make that cheater prove herself!” and “Your girlfriend is a liar!”
A Hurtful Experience
The men’s hurtful insults had the woman on the verge of tears. Her boyfriend tried to silence his friends but was unsuccessful in calming the situation. The woman felt that he could have defended her more profusely.
The Unsettling Video Call
In an attempt to resolve the issue, the woman reluctantly agreed to a video call with her boyfriend and his friends. They demanded she show her hands and her phone on the video call throughout the conversation whilst they messaged the suspicious account dating profile, testing whether she was being truthful or not.
Proving Her Innocence
To her relief, the ‘catfisher’ behind the account responded during the video call, proving that she was indeed innocent of any wrongdoing. Despite this revelation, none of the friends extended an apology to her. Instead, they only directed their apologies towards her boyfriend, leaving her feeling disrespected and disregarded.
The Upcoming Party Dilemma
Two weeks later, the woman’s boyfriend’s friends were hosting a party, and the boyfriend expressed his desire for her to meet them in person for the first time. However, the woman held significant reservations about doing so until they apologized to her and acknowledged their wrongful actions.
The Apology Standoff
The woman found herself at a crossroads. On one hand, she understood her boyfriend’s perspective, recognizing that his friends were merely trying to support him due to his past experiences with cheaters. On the other hand, the insults and lack of apology weighed heavily on her mind.
The Final Question
The question of whether to attend the party or not lingered in the woman’s thoughts. She recognized that it could be the perfect opportunity to get the apology she desired and move on with life. However, she also felt reluctant to attend a party hosted by people who had treated her so awfully.
Telling Her Story
The woman headed online with her story, opening up the comment section to the public. She asked what people thought she should do, and whether she was overreacting by refusing to attend the party. Thankfully, she was defended profusely: “Why does your boyfriend have such disgusting friends?! That’s concerning”, wrote one reader.
Red Flag
Many readers were concerned about how the boyfriend made no attempt to defend the woman. “Stand your ground”, a commenter suggested. “You humored them and went so far as to prove you were innocent, so the least they can do is apologize. Honestly, it’s a red flag that your boyfriend doesn’t think they owe you an apology”.
Further Suspicions
One commenter made a suggestion that many other readers had feared. “Have you considered that one of them could have made the profile?”, they asked. “Their gleeful gang-up is suspicious to me.”
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Source: Reddit