A woman came home to find her brother partying with his friends to celebrate how he treated a girl he got pregnant. He’d refused to help pay for an abortion and blocked her from all social media. When the woman found out, she was disgusted at her younger sibling and kicked him out.
She Gave Him a Place to Stay
The woman said about her brother, ‘He lives with me since he moved out of our parent’s house.’
Her Brother Threw a Party Without Permission
She was 25, and her brother was 22 and had often been immature. One day, she came home to find him wasted with a bunch of his friends. She was mad because he hadn’t asked if he could throw a party and it was her home. When she confronted him, she couldn’t believe his response.
He Was a Fully Grown Adult
When the woman confronted her brother about the party, he told her he was an adult and could do whatever he wanted. She was frustrated, as she had been kind enough to let him live with her, and even though he was supposed to pay rent, he had often missed a month, and she kept her mouth shut.
It Was a ‘Bullet-Dodged’ Party
But the woman was about to hear something truly shocking come from her brother’s mouth. Apparently, this gathering was a party that they coined a ‘Bullet-Dodged’ party to celebrate her brother. He had gotten a girl from work pregnant, and when she asked for him to help her pay for the abortion, he refused and blocked her so she couldn’t contact him.
She Couldn’t Believe it
The woman couldn’t believe what she was hearing. He had been seeing the girl for a little while, and one day, she texted him to tell him she was pregnant and wanted an abortion. She needed some financial help to have the operation and wanted the brother to supply her with the funds. But instead of taking responsibility, the woman’s brother acted cruelly towards the girl he had impregnated.
She Lied About Her Birth Control
The boys felt righteous because one of them came up with the ridiculous idea that it was ‘impossible’ for a woman on the pill to get pregnant. Therefore, the pregnant girl lied about her birth control, and her pregnancy was her fault. The woman couldn’t believe her brother’s ignorance of not only safe sex and birth control, but also his treatment of women.
She Wanted Him Gone
She couldn’t accept her brother’s cruelty and lack of responsibility for his actions and told him and his friends to get out of her apartment. Swearing at him to go, she was reminded of other things he had done to annoy her in the past. This was certainly not the first time he had enraged her, and she had hit her breaking point. He and his friends stood there in shock, asking if she was serious, and she stood her ground.
She’d Done Everything for Him
The woman said, ‘I had tried so hard to bend over backwards for my baby brother – house him when he was homeless, help him get a job, give him rides…’
And This Was How He Turned Out?
She had done everything for him, and this was who he had become? She told him that if he were old enough to make ‘big-boy decisions,’ he was mature enough to find his own place to live. But he said no. He wasn’t going anywhere. That’s when she lost it and started grabbing all his stuff and packing them in a suitcase, which she threw outside. If he and his friends didn’t leave, she would call the cops. Finally, after hours of pleading through tears, he left his sister’s home.
Her Family Were Mad at Her
Later, she received a message from her family saying she was in the wrong. Her aunts and uncles were extreme conservatives; she believed that’s where her brother got his opinions, but it wasn’t an excuse. After all, she was a conservative herself. Her parents thought their son had acted shamefully, but everyone was guilting the woman to take her brother back. The woman turned to the internet for advice.
The Internet Responded
One person said, ‘If that is how he wants to live his life, I can see why you wouldn’t want to associate with him.’
Others Chimed in
Another commented, ‘Will you still be expected to care for your younger brother when you’re both in your 40s?’
Another commenter added
empathised with the woman, and expressed they wouldn’t want to share their home with a ‘misogynistic jerk’ either.
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