His Brother-In-Law Humiliated Him At His Sister’s Wedding By Searching Him As He Was A Recovering Addict – Was He Fair To Cause A Scene?

A 24-year-old man had been invited to his sister’s wedding, an occasion that held emotional significance due to the support his sister had provided throughout his addiction struggles. However, little did he know that at the wedding, his unfortunate past would be brought up in an insulting way.

History With Addiction

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The man explained his past history with substance abuse: “I’m an addict who has been in recovery for the past six months”, he lamented. “I used and used until I was basically in poverty.”

His Sister’s Support

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However, the man expressed his gratitude for his sister, who played a significant role in his recovery. “My older sister helped bail me out more than once”, he explained. “She’s my best friend and I know it hurt her a lot to see me like that.”

Rocky Brother-in-Law Relations

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Despite the passage of two years since his sister’s fiancé first met him as a struggling addict, the two men held a strained relationship. “He’s not my biggest fan, to say the least, considering how much I put my sister through”, he wrote. 

An Unexpected Encounter

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The sister’s wedding day arrived, and upon arriving at the wedding reception, the man received an unfriendly welcome from his brother-in-law. He approached him and, in front of everyone, proceeded to pat him down, stating that he needed to ensure he hadn’t brought any substances with him.

Defiance and Discomfort

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Reacting instinctively, the recovering addict pulled away and firmly told his brother-in-law not to touch him. The situation escalated as the brother-in-law insisted that it was necessary for him to do so and urged him to calm down.

A Clash of Wills

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Frustration mounted as the recovering addict resisted the pat-down, considering it an unwarranted invasion of his privacy. He attempted to move past his brother-in-law, but he was blocked, with the brother-in-law making it clear that he wouldn’t hesitate to eject him from the reception.

A Heated Exchange

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Tempers flared, and a heated exchange ensued between the two men. “I was becoming increasingly angry and was practically yelling in his face at this point”, the man recounted. “I told him to just drop it. He said he would but that ‘he would deal with it later when I got out of hand.’”

Differing Perspectives From Family

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After the otherwise peaceful reception, family members expressed their opinions about the confrontation. Some argued that the recovering addict should have complied with the search instead of acting like he had something to hide. Meanwhile, his sister remained neutral, unwilling to take sides.

Reflecting on the Situation

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The man was left conflicted after hearing his family’s side. He recognized that tolerating the pat-down would have prevented the situation entirely. However, he had felt humiliated by his brother-in-law and believed that fighting back was completely justifiable.

Seeking Resolution

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The man began to feel guilty for his part in spoiling the atmosphere of his sister’s wedding, so he posted his story on an online forum to see what other people thought. He was relieved to have the community come to his defense. “His reaction was so unnecessary and he caused a spectacle by trying to pat you down in front of everyone”, pointed out one reader.

Intentional Humiliation

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“If it was REALLY necessary, there’s so many other ways he could have gone about it”, another commenter wrote. “To do something like that in front of all the other guests is humiliating and completely out of line, and I’d wonder if it was purposeful humiliation.”

A Long Road Ahead

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However, not everyone felt complete sympathy for the man. “You have an insanely long road towards regaining the trust of anyone in your family, especially your sister, and brother-in-law”, someone stated. “Not being able to keep your cool when faced with severe distrust is going to stunt that process.”

An Unexpected Twist

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Many readers’ opinions changed when the man wrote a comment, admitting that he had physical fights with the brother-in-law in the past when intoxicated. “So he’s been in multiple physical fights with the brother-in-law”, a commenter pointed out. “Seems like vital information was left out to garner sympathy and downplay the literal harm done.”

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