No Need for Words: 17 Clues She’s Not Into You, No Matter What She Says

Dating nowadays can be challenging, and finding happiness is not easy. What if women give you signs that this won’t work out?  An internet survey recently asked, “When do you realize that she’s not into you and that you should move on? Here are the top 17 responses:

She’s Not Enthusiastic About Spending Time with Me

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“Yes, it’s either an emphatic yes or a hard no, and it’s too much work otherwise.”

“Yeah, some women want the guy to put all the effort into this. But I need some enthusiasm when we make plans; otherwise, I am boring her.”

Always Being the One to Initiate a Conversation

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“I don’t get texts for weeks if I’m not the one to start a Convo. So I just stopped altogether, and I’m now very lonely.”

“Cut it off and find a woman enamored in you. Ain’t worth waiting if you feel that way.”

She Expected Me to Drop Everything and Be with Her Whenever She Wanted

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“Yes. I need time for myself. It’s annoying because I let them have alone time, but I cannot have time for myself.”

“This is annoying because it’s so narcissistic.”

She Says that She’s Not Ready for A Relationship

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“I genuinely thought I wasn’t ready, then I met someone I fell for so madly it’s hard to describe. Luckily so did she, and we’ve been together for more than 7 years.”

“It’s more like, “I’m not ready for a relationship with you.””

I Asked Her Out and She Said No

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“To be fair, if it’s a no, this is the best thing she could say. So many times, she says yes and then cancels on the day, randomly unmatches you, actually goes on a date, and later claims “no romantic interest.” It’s a massive waste of time for both parties.”

“Asking someone out is a good way to determine if they’re into you. A lot of people could benefit from trying that.”

It Takes Her Forever (a Whole Day or More) to Reply to My Texts, Even when Plans Were Made

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“The first time, it was somewhat understandable; the second time, I texted her to ask if she still wanted to. She only texted me two days later, and the third time I just wanted to gauge whether to even keep trying. She forgot again.”

“I don’t know why people do that. Even if you’re afraid to say no, make up an excuse. Lie. I’d rather have a woman do that to me vs. saying yes and then suddenly “forgets.””

When She Emptied My Bank Account and Got Pregnant by Another Man

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“There are some guys that would still try to make this work. But yeah, it’s over at this point.”

“There were probably warning signs long before the final act, though.”

I Am Putting All the Work Into Making Conversation

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“Attention, and someone to compliment her without the commitment. That’s about it.”

“I hate this. It makes me feel like a dancing monkey. I understand that not everyone is social, but we’re incompatible.”

She’s Using Me to Get Back at Her Ex

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“It’s hard to know when this is happening. Even her friends might say it to mess with you or her.”

I Stumbled Across Some Explicit Texts Between Her and Her Ex

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“She views the relationship much differently than you if she is still sending explicit texts to her ex, especially if a lot of time has passed since they broke up.”

She Starts Acting Suspicious and Defensive for No Reason

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“This one always gets me. I was not suspicious until you started acting suspicious, like putting a code on all your texting apps and shutting the computer anytime I walk near you.”

“This is always a bad sign.”

She Went to The Bathroom and Never Came Back

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“This one is always the worst. And they always do it after eating, but before the bill.”

“I find this very rude. I’d much prefer if they told me straight rather than ghosting me.”

She Complains About Her Boyfriend

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“I know I could make a move, but it’s just too much headache to deal with a love triangle and call it quits.”

“I find they want to break up with their boyfriend, but are too scared of being alone, so they put out feelers looking for other guys. I believe it’s called monkey branching.”

She Says She Wants an Open Relationship

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“Yup. This means she wants to try out other guys without consequences from her current relationship. Some people are fine with this, but it’s an instant no from me.”

“I have always viewed this as a polite way of asking permission to cheat.”

She Starts Referring to You as “Bro” or “Dude”

“Not necessarily. “It’s only if she wasn’t calling you that in the beginning and suddenly starts.”

“Fully in the friend zone at that point.”

She Makes Me Choose Between Friends or Her

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“If my (imaginary) girlfriend’s friend constantly tried to give her bad advice that would eventually lead to our break up, then I would also make her choose.”

“Yeah, my friends are a group package. I have known them far longer than her and will not give them up for her.”

She Cringes when I Touch Her Shoulder

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“It could sometimes be trauma, but it makes me feel bad. Especially when she doesn’t react that way with someone else.”

“I normally shut down after this and end it almost immediately. It’s too much of an uphill battle if something as basic as contact has such a strong reaction.”

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