A recently married woman caught her 36-year-old husband having what could be described as an emotional affair with a 19-year-old colleague over the phone. Suspicious of the pair, she told the young woman’s boyfriend and uncovered a history of cheating. Now, her husband is acting strange.
They Had Only Been Married a Few Months
The woman said, ‘I am a married woman who was happily married up until a few days ago.’
He Had Plenty of Friends Who Were Women
She had only been married to her husband for a few months, marrying in December, and she had known him to have a few friends who were women. So, she wasn’t concerned when he started talking about his growing relationship with a new woman at work. After all, she trusted him completely.
She Made Him Giddy
To the woman’s dismay, it wasn’t long before red flags started to appear. The woman noticed a change in her husband when he spoke about his new friend. He would act ‘giddy,’ which felt very familiar. It reminded her of how he had acted when they’d dated. She wondered if anything was going on between her 36-year-old husband and the new 19-year-old at his workplace.
They Texted Loads
The woman tried to ignore her feelings of distrust, but when her partner began messaging the co-worker, things got weird. Occasionally, she would ask what they talk about, and he would provide extremely vague answers. She tried to be okay with it until she came home one day and found him talking on the phone with her.
She Had to Tell Him the Truth
Finding her husband on the phone with the co-worker startled the woman, and she realized she couldn’t bite her tongue any longer. She waited for him to get off the phone, and when he did, she let him know that his relationship with the young woman bothered her. Afterwards, she asked something she hadn’t ever wanted to ask.
He Wouldn’t Let Her Go Through His Phone
She asked to see their messages, to which he refused. The woman was shocked. Was this proof that something torrid was going on behind her back? The husband told his wife that the messages between him and his co-worker were private, mainly because they played a game where they would tell each other secrets. Apparently, he had sworn never to show or tell anybody the contents of their messages.
It Was Far Too Intimate to Be Innocent
The woman said, ‘I told him I felt this was too intimate of a conversation for “friends” to be having.’
She Didn’t Want Her Boyfriend to Find Out
That’s when the husband told his wife that his co-worker had a controlling boyfriend who would be angry if he found out she was messaging him. Immediately, a flurry of red flags filled the woman’s mind; what had her husband gotten himself into? That’s when she demanded that he stop talking to his co-worker. It was just all too weird.
She Ratted Him Out
To the woman’s surprise, her husband refused to stop messaging his co-worker. He claimed it was because he didn’t want ‘to lose his friend.’ So, she took matters into her own hands, found the co-worker’s boyfriend, and told him about their partners talking and swapping secrets. She felt strongly that he would want to know, and if the tables were turned, she would certainly appreciate the heads up. That’s when she found out some scandalous information.
The Young Woman Was a Cheater
Apparently, the co-worker had cheated on her boyfriend several times, and when he confronted her about the messages and secret swapping, she denied it. As a result, they broke up, and the co-worker told the woman’s husband to stop messaging her. The friendship was over, and the secrets were no more. But the husband was annoyed with his wife for losing him a valuable friendship, and things became weird between them.
She Ruined Three Relationships
The wife, who had initially felt so sure she had been in the right, started feeling guilty. Was it her fault that three relationships may have been destroyed: Her husband and the co-worker, the co-worker and partner, and possibly, her marriage? The woman didn’t know what to think, so she turned to the Internet for advice.
The Internet Was There for Her
One person said, ‘It’s weird that this 19-year-old woman knows the “secrets” of a married man who wouldn’t let his wife know.’
Others Chimed in
Another commented, ‘Your spouse should absolutely be groveling for forgiveness.’
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