She Earned Good Money as A Stripper and Bought an Apartment, But When She Fell Pregnant Her Boyfriend Refused to Raise Their Child in A Home Bought by ‘Stripper Money’

A woman had worked as a stripper in the past, a career choice she embraced without shame. This past job was lucrative which put her in a great financial position, although she would soon find that someone close to her would judge her for the money that she had earned.

Spending Wisely

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During her time as a stripper, the woman had saved her money wisely. “I intentionally lived as cheaply as possible (cheap little studio flat, living off ramen, wearing old clothes) because my co-workers all told me that they were able to buy their own places on their income, so long as they saved like crazy”, she explained.

Buying Her Apartment

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The woman explained that her plan was a success: “I managed to outright buy myself a 3-bedroom flat. I rented out the other rooms for a while but I got sick of having roommates, so now I have them up online for shorter stays, but not to rent.” 

Meeting Her Partner

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Eighteen months ago, the woman met her current partner, who had no issue with her previous occupation. However, he did ask her to maintain a white lie on certain occasions, telling others she had worked as a waitress.

Discovering Pregnancy

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Recently, the couple learned that the woman was two months pregnant, and they both expressed excitement about the news. Her boyfriend suggested moving in together, and she agreed – it seemed like a logical step.

Diverging Opinions on Living Arrangements

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The woman had assumed that he would move into her flat since it was larger and more suitable for a growing family. She had a spare room available for the baby, while her boyfriend’s one-bedroom flat did not. Furthermore, she cherished her flat and the financial security it represented.

His Proposal to Sell the Flat

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As a compromise, the man proposed the woman could sell her flat and purchase a new place together. However, she resisted, expressing her attachment to the flat she had worked so hard to acquire.

Disagreement Over the Source of Funds

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The man’s reason for not going with this plan shocked his girlfriend. He argued that he didn’t want to live in a flat purchased with “stripper money.” She felt insulted and defended her past career, but their disagreement escalated.

Communication Breakdown

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Their conversation became heated, and he left, claiming she was too emotional to discuss the matter rationally. They continued their discussion through text messages.

Different Perspectives

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Through text, the man insisted that raising a child in his girlfriend’s flat wouldn’t feel right to him due to it being funded by her past career. Furthermore, he wasn’t on the deed, so it would never feel like “their place”. 

Her Perspective

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The man’s explanations only served to upset the woman further: “He says he wouldn’t feel right raising a child in my flat knowing how I purchased it, but he never had a problem with my ‘stripper money’ before this”. Whilst the woman could understand his perspective regarding the deed, she felt that this shouldn’t matter when it was the perfect property to start a family.

Seeking Opinions

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The woman headed online with her frustrations, asking an internet forum whether they felt she was overreacting. However, everyone came running to defend her. “He’s being irrational”, one commenter stated. “Evidently, he’s way less okay with the stripper thing than he’s been letting on.”

He Was Using Her

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Many readers suggested that the woman’s boyfriend may be holding his opinions so strongly simply because he was using her. “This guy is a loser who just can’t handle that you’ve been more successful at life and wants to use you as a leg up”, another commenter explained.

A Gaslighter 

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Comments accusing the man of gaslighting were ubiquitous throughout the comment section. “Saying that you’re acting irrationally and overreacting is classic gaslighting behavior”, one reader pointed out. “He also wants to co-own with you at only 18 months into the relationship? Helllll no.”

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