There are many factors that make a man noticeable to women. Some things leave a strong impression, like his self-assurance and ability to make them laugh. An internet survey recently asked, “What’s something men do that turns you on? Why? Here are the 19 best responses:
The Ability to Explain Something without Sounding Conceited
“My current boyfriend minored in theoretical mathematics, and he explains math theorems to me when they’re relevant. I love learning things from people and find it very attractive.”
“That is a product of truly understanding and knowing rather than surface knowledge. When someone deeply understands something, it’s effortless.”
Sense of Humor
“My boyfriend made me laugh nonstop on our first date, and I melted pretty fast.”
“I would rather jump off a cliff than be in a humorless relationship. The latter sounds horrifying.”
Manners
“Say thanks to the drive-thru cashier, and I’m in love.”
“Humor and manners are all I have going for me. If I’d known it was enough, I would have been putting myself out more!”
Genuine Kindness and Interest in Your Opinions, Thoughts, and Interests
“Sincerity is definitely a huge one for me.”
“I was watching Joker with a group of friends when it came out two years ago or so. I sat next to a guy I liked but had not thought much about. Remember that scene where Joaquin Phoenix gets beaten up in a clown costume by a gang of kids at the beginning of the movie? My friend just said, “That poor guy.” But in an absolutely earnest tone, full of compassion. This really left an impression on me, and now that guy is my crush. It was so unexpected coming from him.”
Good Flirting
“Average humor and awkward flirting are the best I can do. Take it or leave it.”
Strong Forearms
“I don’t care about muscles anywhere else, but toned forearms are beautiful.”
“I used to think I was a weirdo, then I saw a comic about lusting after male teachers in school when they rolled their sleeves up and felt seen.”
A Smile
“I smile genuinely every time, and it often works. My cracked teeth may not help that much in that one.”
“When my boyfriend smiles. He’s got this specific smile when he’s delighted and having a good time, and every time I see it, I simultaneously melt and want to jump his bones.”
Confidence Not Arrogance
“Arrogant people think they are better than everyone else. Confident people know they are good but understand people can be better than them.”
“But the one thing women always tell me (which took a while to not take as a backhanded compliment) was that I’m uniquely attractive, and my confidence and the way I carry myself is beautiful.”
Patience
“I love kind, patient men.”
“I’d like to find a woman who values patience, but I don’t want to wait that long.”
Watching Them Get Passionate About Nerdy Stuff
“Lies. I’ve never had a woman who didn’t ghost me care about the nerdy stuff I am into.”
“As someone who wants to make video games, being passionate about nerd stuff is my constant state of mind. Sometimes I worry that it can get annoying, especially because I tend to be quiet. Still, I can also become a 2-hour monologue machine if you ask me about movies, video games, etc.”
Nice Hands
“When I met one of my exes, she said I had nice hands; I moisturized and maintained my nails because another ex said it was a big deal; women have the inside info.”
“Yep, I’ve gotten many compliments on my hands. I don’t know what’s so attractive about it, but I got some good-looking meat hooks.
Men with Whom I Can Have Discussions without Anyone Getting Angry
“For some reason, people who can challenge me intellectually turn me on.”
“My wife and I vote on different sides of the aisle. When we discuss political issues, instead of arguing, we try to come up with middle-ground solutions. This challenges both of us intellectually, and I understand where you are coming from with that.”
Kindness and Emotional Sensitivity
“I want to feel safe around them and know they have respect for me and others.”
“I’m pretty sure that I’m too emotionally sensitive to even attempt a relationship because I would almost certainly just leave the situation out of fear of rejection.”
Brown Eyes
“Blue eyes are highly overrated.”
Good with Children
“I noticed it when I saw a friend’s husband with another friend’s kids – he was amazing with them. I remember feeling alarmed as to why I suddenly felt attracted to him.”
“How I treat our cat army is part of why my wife and I are still together after 16 years.”
The Smell of After-Shaving Lotions
“I just want to get closer and closer and smell that Adam’s apple. I know it’s weird.”
A Good Smirker
“Just an invitation to be naughty. And I’m like, yes, please.”
Love and Kindness Toward Animals
“People’s relationships with their pets are a good indication of character, even outside of dating. More than anything, having violent, anxious, or cowardly pets often reflects a related flaw in their owner, such as abusing the animal or just being really unstable themselves.”
A Big, Fat, Unapologetic Hat
“Just like a big old stovepipe or top hat. Even a 10-gallon or a sombrero gets my motor revving. However, baseball caps don’t do it, and all my friends agree. Go big or go home; I need a yacht captain hat.”
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